Your First Event

Attending your first event can be exciting and nerve-wracking. Here's how to prepare.

Before the Event

Research

• Read the event rules and dress code
• Check if it's beginner-friendly
• Find out if there's orientation available

Prepare Yourself

• Set personal goals (what do you want from this?)
• Know your limits before you go
• Have an exit plan if needed

Safety Measures

• Tell a trusted friend where you'll be
• Arrange your own transportation
• Set check-in times
• Have a code word for "call me NOW"

At the Event

Etiquette Basics

• Consent applies to conversations too
• Don't touch people or their belongings without asking
• Don't interrupt scenes
• Keep phones away (usually no photos allowed)
• Respect privacy—what happens at events stays at events

Making Connections

• Start with hello and your name
• Ask open-ended questions
• Listen more than you talk
• It's okay to be nervous—others remember their first time too